live ur life

I suddenly have realised in life that no one is more important than you. If you love someone and belive that he is your priority that because that contents you and you like it.

Weired idea, I agree. So I am tired listening to people and trying to mould myself their way. I have decided to live my life my way. Period.

Tough, deciding that I will do what i want to do and not consider anyone elses. Last night and the sleepless tears and emotions taught me that.

I so miss my friends back home. When I had so many good friends back home, I wonder whom do i talk to here. It is so disgusting at times. All i want to do is go home and be happy. Bad phase.

So,the worth for ones self is very important in life, specially if you happen to be a woman. It is not all about catering to other people needs and making their smile yours, but to give yourself the reason to smile.

We are so busy pleasing other people that we tend to forget our own reason to live. We live just for us and not for them. Sometimes, a good dress and a little make up helps. You do not have to know or do what people apprecite in you, its good to be bad once in a while, just being you.

Trust me, a colorful you with the right ear rings and a dash of lipstick can do wonders. It makes you feel better and treasured. the blues will be gone and you will even work better.

Once in a while pamper yourself.Take a day off, read a book or go for a movie. If the family is not supportive and encouraging and likes singing the chorus about dreadful and old you are, ignore them. Let them envy you as they peek through the curtains of their house.
Be strong , be powerful, for there is no other you. Give yourself some time, some worthiness so that epople stop considering you a more a public person who is supposed to cater to other people.

Never forget to give yourself a good pat,for all the things that you have done and are still doing.
When things go the wrong way, do not fear to let them know. might be tough and but you will surely be in their respected list and next time they will be a little more cautious about ordering you around.

So,whether it is your family , home or someone you love, tell them to give you the worth you deserve. Be you and live your moments with care. Live with fun and eliminate things that do not make you happy. Cut down on the habitual stuff, of automatically doing things everyday. If you do not want to do it, do not do it.

Live your way, the worlds much happier in the park or while you watch the sunset over a cup of steaming coffee. This is life and you are going to live it once, live your way!!!